People will always talk about you, especially when they envy you and the life you live. You affected their lives, they didn’t affect yours. They will question all the good things they hear about you but believe all the bad without a second thought.
Backbiting can come to us so naturally. A simple conversation can become an opportunity to complain or speak negatively about someone. Maybe we have something against someone and secretly want others to share that same thought, adding our own opinion to get the others to agree. By backbiting, we encourage others to backbite as well.
People commonly love to know and share rumors and secrets. They often don’t think about whether it is true or not. They add some details from the original story so that they can get the intended reaction.That’s why dissatisfaction, humiliation, insult,greed, jealousy,and grapevine addiction are the primary reasons for the proliferation of this ludicrous habit of backbiting
People with a perpetually negative bent of mind resort to eternal criticism of everything under the Sun with or without motives. They have a toxic nature, and faultfinding is their primary occupation.To buttress their arguments, they indulge in backbiting, even though they are fully aware that it projects the other person in poor light.
Backbiting leads to trust issues. When we discover that someone has been talking negatively about us behind our back, it is difficult to trust that person again. They become fake friend. Fake friends are like pennies, two-faced and worthless. They flip their side faster than one can blink. Fake friends are secret haters, and once you stop talking to them, they start talking about you
Backbiting leads to a decline in self-esteem. When you hear negative things about you, it can be difficult to maintain a positive self-image. You may start to believe the negative things that are being said about you, which can lead to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt.
Backbiting leads to division and strife within a community. When people engage in negative talk about others, it creates tension and conflict. This leads to a breakdown in relationships and a sense of mistrust within the community.
Do you know that some people hate you for no reason just because somebody lied to them about you. That’s why you shouldn’t trust anyone who talks bad about people to you because they’ll surely talk behind your back, too.
If you are in the habit of backbiting others to look good,gain favor or to destroy their character for whatever reasons,you will meet your own doom at the time of breakthrough because when you destroy someone’s life with lies, take it as a loan, it will come back to you with interest.
There are still natural courts and natural justices. And they’re FIRM and RUTHLESS.
